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    Đừng bao giờ đưa những thứ như thế này lên Facebook

    If you’re on the Internet at all—and if you’re not, I’m not sure how you’re reading this—you’ve surely noticed the substantial number of people who aren’t very good at it. Human nature must bear some of the blame, seeing as we say stupid things both online and off, but beyond that, there appear to be fundamental gaps in our social media literacy.

    So before you post that video, meme, or selfie on Facebook (or Twitter, or Instagram, or Tumblr, and let’s consider avoiding Snapchat completely), ask yourself whether it fits one or more of the criteria outlined below. Because nobody ever regretted not uploading something for the entire world to see, and you may well save yourself a load of grief down the line.

    1) It’s evidence of a crime you committed.
    Cho mọi người thấy bạn từng phạm pháp hay từng dính chàm

    Nary a day goes by anymore without a story about idiot thieves accidentally outing themselves with a photo taken on a stolen device—at this point, such cases are barely worth reporting. We get that you’re excited to play with your ill-gotten toy, but one of the neat things about iPhones is that they’re connected to the iCloud, and if that service can’t keep Jennifer Lawrence’s nudes secure, well, what hope is there for you? (Likewise, try to refrain from providing proof that you are in a gang, grow weed, get minors drunk, or torture animals.)

    2) It’s hate speech.

    Nói những điều chả ai muốn nghe

    Facebook isn’t a Ku Klux Klan rally, no matter how much white people love it, and trust us, you’re not impressing anyone but your crotchety great-uncle when you drop the n-word. In fact, with each pointless hateful comment, more and more of your “friends” are silently blocking you from appearing in their news feeds, until at last one day you are simply screaming into the void, with no one to answer—as fitting a punishment as we can imagine. Also, your insecurity is showing.

    3) It contains sensitive information best communicated in person.

    Đưa những thông tin nhạy cảm qua đó thể hiện cái tôi dị hợm của mình

    Here are a few examples of announcements that work just fine online: graduated, engaged, married, baby born, going on vacation, new job (as long as your current boss already knows, of course), bought a house, finished the crossword in Sunday’s New York Times. Some things you may want to play closer to the vest: a sudden death, an acquaintance going to rehab, the details of your ongoing divorce, a scathing opinion of your child’s private preschool. Comments about these matters are almost always improper in a public setting—you wouldn’t shout this stuff in the middle of Times Square, would you?

    4) It’s asking for inappropriate “likes.”

    Ép người khác "like" những thứ họ không thích

    Brands and news outlets are often worse about this than individuals, but nevertheless, it’s best to avoid making the impression that you’re exploiting a tragedy for attention and clicks. Try to remember that “likes” and shares are are only a valuable currency in your own Web-addled mind, a consensual delusion of sorts, and that the sanctity of human life, such as it is, definitely outweighs the opportunity to “win” whatever media micro-cycle we find ourselves in at the moment. Believe it or not, the average person’s emotional range extends beyond a thumbs-up or withholding of same.

    5) It involves someone who wouldn’t want you to post it.

    Đưa chuyện riêng tư của người khác lên mà họ không muốn như vậy tí nào

    Other people in your proximity may not share your devil-may-care attitude about personal privacy; do them a solid and ask yourself whether they would consent to being tagged in whatever you’re about to say. Even friendly ribbing can look like cyberbullying and explode into unnecessary drama. For that reason, too, you’re better off having any heated arguments far away from your Facebook wall, where randos can rubberneck, throw fuel on the fire, or screencap it for Reddit’s amusement. We can’t imagine anybody has ever successfully hugged it out over the Internet, either.

    6) It might get you fired—or prevent you from getting a job.

    Đưa cái gì mà có thể khiến bạn mất việc hoặc không kiếm được việc

    Much as you wouldn’t show up to a job interview in blackface and slurping from a classic red Solo cup, we’d advise you not reveal that behavior on Facebook. Because guess what? The last person who hired you—and the next—are on Facebook as well. It may not be fair that employers take your drinking or drug use into account when making hiring decisions, but that won’t stop them from doing it. Oh, and if you’re a teacher, you might want to steer clear of social media altogether, because your students will inevitably use it against you.

    7) It’s intentionally antagonizing or stupid (i.e., a teenager would find it funny).

    Đưa cái gì đó chứng tỏ bạn cố tình chống đối hay tỏ ra mình là kẻ ngu ngốc (các bạn teen thường thấy đây là trò đùa)

    Perhaps you remember the Pennsylvania 14-year-old currently facing two years of jail time for mimicking oral sex with a statue of Jesus? Just imagine: if he’d had a better sense of humor, he wouldn’t have become fodder for the spurious “War on Christianity” narrative Fox News seems bent on peddling. (Besides, when it comes to casual blasphemy, you kind of have to be there.) The trick here is to put yourself in your grandmother’s slippers and decide whether she would approve of what you’re doing. No? Then delete or put it in a scrapbook. That way you can look back fondly on your dumb hijinx instead of apologizing for them.

    Illustration by Jason Reed

    Lần sửa cuối bởi vntruongson, ngày 30-12-2014 lúc 10:33 AM.
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    Re: Đừng bao giờ đưa những thứ như thế này lên Facebook

    Hehe !

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